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Can you be raped by your husband?
frustrated
Posted: 7/20/2009 2:39:00 PM
My husband seems to feel entitled to  my body because I'm his wife. When I tell him no, he'll usually just cuss me out and go to another room, but then he'll try again 30 minutes later. Sometimes when I say no though, he'll turn me on my stomach and dry hump me while I cry. When he's done, he'll tell me to stop acting like a weirdo or a child. This makes me feel molested and childlike. Sometimes he'll apologize later, but I don't want to be with him anymore. I will never feel intimate with him again. Every time he touches me, I flinch. He's not trying to hurt me, but then again, he doesn't seem to care much if he does. When I get upset and tell him that he raped me and I don't want him to ever touch me again, he gets mad and says he did not rape/molest me and that he just wants me to love him again, but how can I love some one I can't stand touching or kissing me. I know this is a nasty topic, but will some one please give me some feedback soon, I can't talk about this with anyone I know and I feel alone and scared, but I also wonder if I'm being ridiculous since he is my husband.
jesstruss
Posted: 10/6/2009 12:24:00 PM
 . Yes I think you can be raped by your husband. I have felt that way about my husband, but always thought that because we are married it wasn't rape or I should give in. wit  He can not just have it his way with you you are a person with feeling and he needs to respect them. If he doesn't it could get worse.
Newlywed
Posted: 11/29/2009 6:09:00 PM
You can totally get raped by your husband. Rape is when you say no and someone forces themself on you sexually. It does not matter if they are your husband or not.
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