How Dry I Am!

We’ve been married 6 years, and in the last 6 months, we’ve had sex exactly 2 times. If I try to talk about it with my husband, he says everything is fine. But is it?

I dunno. You tell me. Do you want more sex? Are you upset because you’re not getting it, or because you don’t really want it anymore either? There are no set rules on how many times a week or month you should be hiding the salami in your marriage. It’s up to the both of you. Sexual need waxes and wanes like the moon phases depending on tons of different variables including age, physical condition, job stress, kid stress, and on and on.

Only you know what the two of you have gone through lately. However, if you can’t put your finger on any particular life event or change in your circumstances, you’ll have to dig a little deeper. If you still have desire for your husband, but his desire has diminished, it’s time to talk.

Oftentimes what happens in the bedroom is not in itself a problem, but a symptom of something else that’s happening in your relationship. Whether or not it’s the only difference you’ve noticed in the last few months, it needs to be addressed. You may not want to suggest going to counseling, but it will certainly let him know you think the farmer needs to give a bit more attention to your cabbage patch.

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