Ladies, I’m afraid it’s time for me to cut the crepe and get right to the point with one of life’s universal truths. Ready? Okay, here goes…
Every man you go out with wants to get in your pants.
The only thing that separates the slime bags from the gentlemen is timing (and what happens the day after). No matter how kind and “different” they may seem, I can assure you, they all have the same ultimate goal. Your life will be much easier and less confusing if you simply accept this universal truth. I am not repeat NOT suggesting you have to let them IN. I’m just saying that’s where they all want to go. Eventually.
It’s just the way men are wired. It’s not a character flaw, not something shameful, it’s simply nature.
The same way we are subconsciously evaluating every man we meet for long-term partner/marriage potential, they are wondering how to get into our pants.
He says you’re really special and loves your company? Right. Friendship is more important than anything? Ha.
Don’t believe me? Have a look at some swear-ta-gawd verbatim profiles I found on match.com:
“I am looking for someone to share life with but not be smothered by. I love to hang out with that special someone that shares common interests and I also like my personal alone time.” (Translation: I want to have sex a few times a week, but don’t expect me to take you out every Saturday).
“I am kind-hearted, forgiving, considerate, compassionate, passionate and physical. I'm a hands-on type of guy and want a good woman in my arms to care for, love and protect.”
(Translation: I really need to get laid).
“Someone who takes chances, willing to go anywhere and try anything new. Adventurous... Most important to me is a love for life and happiness.” (Translation: I also really need to get laid, but I prefer kinky.)