Intellect Over Emotion

No matter how many times he screws me over on the smallest of things I'm still a little surprised.  My psychologist said that I have to lower my expectations to nothing where he is concerned...and to practice doing it each day.
 
Fast forward, it is time to meet for dinner. I get out of my meeting and guess what? He isn't at the restaurant as planned.  So, I call his sorry ass.
 
Enjoli: Where are you?  I'm at Rainforest Cafe and I don't see you.
 
Mr. LO: I'm at the Crab Shack and we are getting ready to order.  I've been so worried about you - where are you?
 
Enjoli: Why would you be at a restaurant 45 minutes away from where we planned and already ordering without me.  It is Lucy's birthday, and I know she wants me there.
 
Mr. LO: I can't believe you would miss your daughter's birthday (kids are in hearing range)
 
Enjoli: You stupid shit, how could you do this to your daughter?
 
Mr. LO: Well, we will wait for you as long as we can...click
 
Yup he screwed me out of my daughter's 6th birthday.  He didn't even pick up the freakin cake that I ordered, probably becuase he would have to pay for it.
 
Well, I was pretty pissed so I steamed for awhile, called my parents, friends... anyone who could talk me down from the angry place I was headed.
 
I was almost calmed down when my cell rang, and it was Mr. LO.
 
Mr. LO: We're here at your apartment and you aren't here.  Don't you want to see your daughter on her birthday?
 
Enjoli: Why are you at my apartment? We had no agreement that you were coming to my place.  You are doing this so she can hear you.  What f'ing game are you playing now, you worthless piece of shit?
 
Mr. LO: (Laughing like a freak) Sweetie, intellect over emotion. You need to learn to use intellect over emotion. Ha ha ha ...
 
Enjoli: Click. Hung up on him.  He really is Satan's spawn.
 
Intellect over emotion huh? Well I've been stewing over that one all week.  Here is what I've done to use my Intellect over Emotion. (Mind you, this ass has flunked out of 5 colleges)
 
1.  Sent all of the paperwork that I've been gathering since August 1 to my State Child Support agency to collect medical Co-pays from him.  ($1,000 approx).
 
2.  Called all of his creditors that he isn't paying and gave them his new cell phone number :)
 
3.  Hacked his email and MySpace accounts -- again to find out who his new female victims are... and get enough info to start my background checks on them. (New passwords are easy to crack when you are dealing with an idiot)
 
4.  Gather paperwork needed to request a home study of his newest home with his newest roommate.  I think that this is the fifth place he has lived since June.
 
Wonder if he will like my Intellect???